I want find my special lady who will hopefully have all of the qualities that I am looking for, so that we can take it to the next level and have a real relationship. [I am really tired of failed relationships, they're so time and energy consuming]. Some of the qualities in a woman that I eluded to above are RESPECT [even when we disagree], Affection, Intelligence, Wit, Goal-Oriented, someone who has a sense of humor and is playful [who likes a little sport]. A woman who has her head on straight and measures wealth in love and not only in possessions. I am, a 'down to earth' ambitious person. I DO keep it real, balanced enough to go to church, joke, laugh and do something totally new, as long as I know that you are comfortable, then I'm cool. If you are tired of all the games & want to be able to let your "guard" down, you may have found the right person. Send me a message and say HI!